I recently mentioned that Dr. James Schall failed in only one book recommendation so far, but that is not wholly true. I run into a few jems while reading “The Habit of Being” (the letters of Flannery O’Connor) which is why it is still my bathroom reading. I came across a quote I’d like to share because I identify with it, but I’m sharing it mostly because I know my mother will identify with it even more than I do. It’s worth mentioning as an aside the lost art of letter writing. The book is nearly 600 pages long and not nearly all her letters were published. The lady she is writing to here is a dear friend she met through the mail and hardly ever got to see in person, and yet they shared at the deepest level. Sometimes I yearn for the days before Facebook, email and cell phones! “Water, water everywhere but not a drop to drink” comes to mind. But on to the quote:
“After the interview with the Time man I am very much aware of how hard you have to try to escape labels. He wanted me to characterize myself so he would have something to write down. Are you a southern writer? What kind of Catholic are you? etc. I asked him what kinds of Catholics there were. Liberal or conservative, says he. All I did for an hour was stammer and stutter and all night I was awake answering his questions with the necessary qualifications and reservations. Not only will I look like Bishop [the idiot child in her novel “The Violent Bear it Away” and a reference to the photos the Time photographer took] but will sound like him if he could talk.”
You are so right! "All I did for an hour was stammer and stutter and all night I was awake answering his questions with the necessary qualifications and reservations." I can identify with that for sure.
I can write tolerably well, and, I hope, logically. But ask me a question without giving me plenty of time and space to think and qualify and expand, and you will not get anything with much resemblance to the truth. You should hear me spluttering and groaning over most surveys!
This amuses me since not 5 hours ago I was laboring over a teachers' survey for the preschool where I teach, asking us basic questions about ourselves (to help the parents get to know us). It wasn't even anything deep, but I was one of two teachers who had failed to complete it, simply because I couldn't come up with answers that I felt were accurate but still concise! Heaven forbid I should ever, EVER be interviewed in person! It's enough to stumble through an everyday conversation with a trusted friend. :) Janet, I too miss life before email, cell phones and facebook.
I have trouble with survey's and "one a scale from 1 to 10" questions, too, Sarah. When Stephan and I went through the love languages we couldn't just give our numbers to the other, we had to explain what we meant by them! At least we both feel that way or it could get frustrating!
