First I went to the tea ceremony, and that was great, but they honored me by giving me the seat that’s served first so once again I didn’t have the opportunity to watch someone for the proper way to behave. It made it difficult to enjoy because I was confused and had a lot of Japanese flying at me. I’m great at understanding when I have an idea of what I’m being told, but specific arbitrary instructions are quite a different matter. I still enjoyed it, though and I a got a great picture with all the students dressed up in their yukata (summer kimono) and me sitting at the tea-maker’s seat!
After the tea ceremony I visited the classroom exhibits. I generally found the haunted houses more funny than scary, though they did a good job of making it quite dark. I also discovered that somehow it is a romantic activity for couple to do since some male students refused to enter with me because they had girlfriends. I wonder what they thought I was asking . . . It can’t be too serious because a male teacher went in one with me. I’ll never understand the teenage Japanese mind. Anyway, I enjoyed the festival themed rooms more (it also wasn’t so hot!). I played darts for prizes and won firecrackers, fished for bouncy balloons with paperclips and string (I won, and they really had a kiddy pool set up in the classroom!), and threw hoops around prizes (I won bubbles, which were fun later in the day). I didn’t mind giving money to the students, but it also helped that their prices beat festival prices by a landslide.
After the last event everything was stripped away faster than you could blink. The packrat in my was sad to see all the work go into the dumpster so quickly after its use. Since the students usually clean the school it was only a matter of degree to clean up the whole school after the last crazy event. In about half an hour the school was looking as drab and dreary as any ordinary day. I thought that was it, but how could I possibly have though there wouldn’t be a closing ceremony?! It was actually rather brilliant. They did most of the cleaning before the last event so that after it was really over everyone could just go home and didn’t have to think about cleaning up. Hmm, that might help me keep my apartment clean . . .
The closing ceremony did not
disappoint. They started by giving out
awards for the cutest couples in each grade.
This is not so much of a deal in
Naturally, there was a number one
couple out of the sannensei. The girl
was so embarrassed I never saw her face even though they made her (practically
carried her) go up on stage. I might say
it was her girlfriends that dragged her up there, during this whole time there
wasn’t the slightest contact between couples.
I remember in high school couples first of all were probably already
sitting together, and if they weren’t they’d probably run to each other
dramatically and kiss. Not so in
After the love awards they announced the winners for the different events in the festivals. There was a winner for each grade for the stage performances, one winner for the sports day, and overall winners. I have no idea who judges or how each part is weighted, but the students made a big deal of it.
Finally, we watched a movie with shots from the festival, including from that day’s events! I really hope to get that movie, too. It had many of the highlights I really enjoyed (though it didn’t have a shot of the hip-hop group, which had won the best stage performance award!).
The student council leaders closed the ceremony as they had started it by processing out of the gym, but first they gave their farewell speeches. I think I mentioned that this is their last event on student council because they have to quit soon to study for college entrance exams. I don’t know if it was saying goodbye to fun, hello to misery, or something else, but they weren’t afraid to show their emotions. They were all male, and a few really broke down into violent tears while trying to say their goodbyes. They had the support of the crowed, though I could see the ichinensei were a bit baffled, the sannensei shouted “gambate” (fight on, you can do it). I wish I could see into their minds. I did quite a bit of thinking about it, but I have no idea if my thoughts are near the mark or not. I know that school becomes their life and their homeroom is their family in a very real sense, so I can imagine that that has a lot to do with it. As for making a value judgment, I think it’s safer not to. I know there’s so much more to it than I can ever be aware of! So, as the festival brought me closer to my kids at the same time it showed again how I can’t ever close the gap.
